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A Newsletter from the Institute of HeartMath® |
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Business Heart: Making a Commitment
Business heart is a facet of heart intelligence that "means business." Taking control of your life and not letting stress, negativity and being overwhelmed beat you up means acknowledging you can change. Affirm that you are accountable for your emotions, you are not a victim and you can choose how to perceive your circumstances. By using your business heart, you recognize your anxious feelings and make a commitment to transform them.
Gloria felt she was always drowning in too much to do. The children, job and chores around the house all battled for her time and there was no money to hire help. As the stressors stacked up and her body felt depleted, she realized one day she had to stop and take control, so she stepped back and made a commitment to reduce the emotional charge in her responses. She decided to stop reacting as she had in the past, becoming anxious and stressed out, because those reactions only made her feel hopeless. She shifted to her business heart and began breathing a feeling of ease and calm through her heart while taking the significance out of whatever was happening. As she began letting go of feeling overwhelmed, Gloria started experiencing more feelings of appreciation in her heart, for her wonderful children and satisfying job.
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She knew the laundry eventually would be done. By using her business heart, it was clear it was not the to-do list as much as the emotional chain of anxious reactions that got out of control. The commitment must be complete: Gloria could not truly mean business if she continued thinking about what she hadn’t done. She continued breathing ease and calm, then balance as she moved through her daily activities to prevent the feeling of being overwhelmed from returning. The number of tasks didn’t change, but her perceptions and feelings toward them did. As her heart feelings became more coherent, this cleared the static from her mental screen, allowing her to be open to new possibilities and solutions.
Mean business when you shift to your heart and stay committed to feeling positive emotions such as appreciation and caring. You can do what Gloria did. When anxiety pulls at you, the business heart says, "I can’t afford this." Let positive emotions clear your mind of whatever’s in there draining you. Keep telling yourself, "I don’t need this anymore. I absolutely cannot afford it." Each time you say no and follow through, you build more resilience to flex your way through challenges. Know that anxiety and being overwhelmed are not your true self. You can learn to smile at yourself and
say, "I’m not giving in to my old emotional patterns and reactions. I made a choice and a commitment and I will use my heart to mean business and follow through."
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talks/workshops/exhibits/conferences |
June 2, 2007 Santa Barbara Graduate Institute—"Physiological Coherence", a one-day workshop by Rollin McCraty, PhD. For more information about the workshop, go to www.sbgi.edu or call (805) 963-6896.
June 10-14, 2007 Associated Professional Sleep Societies—SLEEP 2007 21st Annual Meeting of the APSS at Minneapolis Convention Center, Minneapolis, Minn. HeartMath exhibit booth #1023. For more information, call (708) 492-0930 or go to www.apss.org.
June 25-28, August 13-16, September 14-17, 2007 The HeartMath 1:1 Provider Training at the IHM Conference Center, Boulder Creek, California—This is a unique training and licensing program for coaches, consultants and healthcare professionals on how to teach the tools of the HeartMath System. To register, call (800) 450-9111, or go to www.heartmath.com/health/professional/1_on_1_licensing.html.
July 7-12, 2007 The 20th International Conference on The First Year Experience® Hawaii, Hilton Waikoloa Village—IHM exhibiting and presenting a poster session. For information go to www.sc.edu/fye/events/international/index.html, or contact the National Resource Center for The First-Year Experience and Students in Transition (803) 777-6029 or
email fye@sc.edu.
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July 16-19, October 19-22, 2007 The Resilient Educator® Qualified Instructor Licensing Program at IHM Conference Center, Boulder Creek, California. For information/application go to www.heartmath.org/educator or call Christiana Bishop (831) 338-8706.
August 9-12, 2007 5th Annual Integrative Medicine for Healthcare Organizations Conference at La Quinta Resort & Club, Palm Springs, Calif. HeartMath exhibiting/Howard Martin presenting. For information go to www.noetics.org.
August 16-20, 2007
American Psychological Association—115th Annual Convention at Moscone Center, San Francisco, Calif. HeartMath exhibit booth #1008. For information go to www.apa.org.
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